Real love or service, is reciprocal, voluntary, experiencing a good exchange of feelings, then there is love. And NEVER by force. Krishna does not want a lover who is forced to obey, serve and love Him at the point of a gun, no, that is NOT love it is slavery.

Srila Prabhupada - "Love is reciprocal, voluntary, good exchange of feeling. Then there is love. NOT by force. Krishna does not want to become a lover like that, ‘You love me, otherwise I shall kill you!" July 8, 1976.

Guru-kripa – “How is it that one can become envious of Krishna, why does Krishna allow us to enter the material world?”

Srila Prabhupada – “You have got little independence, you can violate. Because you are part and parcel of God, God has got full independence, but you have got little independence, proportionately, because you are part and parcel, if he likes, he can return. That independence has to be accepted, little independence. We can misuse that. Krishna-bahirmukha haïä bhoga väïchä kare. That misuse is the cause of our falldown”. (Conversation, Mayapur, February 19, 1976)